Sex to my soul

If a woman tells a man upfront that she wants to have sex with him or she wants sex, does that make him a whore? or a slut?

When i saw a porno movie, I said to myself, wouldnt it be nice if when one person is joined with another in the form of sex..wouldnt it be nice if their soul is being joined as one,too? or are they being joined as one?

For the hundred or the thousand or even a million times you had sex with your lover..your husband or your friend or whatever, did you ever feel like they are also making love to your soul?
that amidst the nakedness, they were able to see the real you..that no words..no actions can ever speak or do of?
that all secrets not speak of are there and you are left vulnerable and bare?
that they were able to reach deep down inside you and found you?
who could say they have?
can i say i have?
can you say you have?