Just as I began to break through to my so called “dark side” i noticed on particular guy. He is extremely good looking. He has dark hair and the most beautiful blue eyes. He is amazing. He was the first “gothic” guy i ever noticed. I was so interested in him but i can’t seem to let him know. I talk to him a lot but i just don’t know how to address him. I have dated two of his friends and i alot of people said thats kind of stupid. I really don’t care though. I want him to know i like him because i do, a lot, but my outgoing personality isn’t quite as out going when it comes to letting him know i am attracted to him. I know it would be best to just say something, but i cant and it’s not like me. What should i say that wouldn’t make me look like a complete fool???
Outgoing turned shy?
March 24th, 2001 | darkness
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I was in a similar situation a few months ago. I had a strong infatuation to a friend of mine, and I didn’t know how to tell her because I knew she didn’t feel the same way and I didn’t want to ruin our friendship. well, i wrote her a note. it was a cowardly way of telling her but i was glad to get it off my back, and she told me she was glad i told her, even though it wasn’t mutual. basically i just told her exactly how i felt and when i started feeling that way and why i did and all that. if you’re lucky it’ll be mutual with this person, and regardless i’m sure they’ll be flattered. just don’t end up like me, praying to a shrine dedicated to someone who doesn’t love you. sadly, that is not a metaphor. good luck
don’t wait too long. the person will end up on a pedestal … and if they end up with you, you may be let down. but if this guy is as good as he sounds, i’d go for it. the time will come. just make sure you can do it without turning red… that’s just the worst… *shudder* i hate embarassment, don’t you?… and pre-planned words are always going to be thrown out the window. step out of yourself and just do it. pretend you’re not really there and it might be easier. good luck.
darkest blessings
moon vampire