‘i compare thee to that of a rose … tho, are you the flower that brightens my days, or are you the thorn that pricks away at my heart ?’
‘We search all our lives for someone to love, yet even if our search is complete … that love will only cause heartache and pain.’
so do we really need it ? true it can be one of the best feelings in the world to be in love and to be loved, yet one way or another love is lost whether it’s that ur dumped, or via the death of a loved one.
Inferni
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This brings to mind the phrase “It is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all.” But when one loses love doesn’t it make them unable to love in the same way again. There is a thin line between love and hate, and when that line is treaded on someone always gets hurt. So in loving someone you become trapped in a constant parade of hate and pain that never ends. It has been my expierence that love can never last because people don’t last and they always change into someone else. Unless you are willing to accept this new person love fails. Love is needed because we always search for it and dwell on it, but the pain it causes has the taste of death.
Love is something that blinds us, and denies us to see the pain that awaits.
can we not still love even after, if not beyond, death?
then again is not the fragility of such an enormous and rare gift what endears it all the more to us?
love in its true form is acceptance of who you are. being loved makes you feel like you have someone to turn to. it’s a powerful emotion that is a double edged sword. no matter in the end i can’t image a world without it. the music business would probably be out of business if not for love. =)
love is inevitable… you will love before you die and be loved before you die… even if you shut yourself away and never see true beauty you will still love before you die…
from this there is no escape… it’s human nature- we feel the need to love therefore we do…
Love,
The word brings me so much pain. I have never loved and doubt I will ever be. It some one longs for and can never obtain.
It upsets me to see thoughs who have found it , and then again it makes me sad, because what they have will not last forever and when it comes to an end so will their belief in happily ever after.
Love is an illusion that creates false hopes and dreams that will never be.
Yes I am sad because i will never love or be loved but I am sadder for those who loved and lost…
well … just to add to my post at the top, what i wrote was inspired by the fact that in a few days time … i’ll be getting dumped (well high likely hood), and btw for all those women out there that think that i have had to have done something wrong … i haven’t … if u look at my diary … http://inferni.diaryland.com
anyway … sometimes it’s better not to have loved someone … esp. if well ur the one getting dumped …
Inferni
Love is a wonderful thing, when you can find it in it’s true essence and not “as portrayed by”… much like spirituality, i’d say. i’m still in love with one of love’s portrayals, though she’s quite done with my heart. i’d like to find real love someday, but i’m not fretting if the substitues do me good.<br>-Copper
well, that tag doesn’t work then? fine.
-Copper
(damn those who don’t even know the simplest of html coding… you make it harder for those of us who do)
i thought i was in love once, i was with the guy for 3 years. he cheated on me, he lied, and he dumped me, repeatively.
that was 2 years ago. they say everything heals with time. well i healed myself, or so i thought. you get entangled so much in trying not to love people, in trying to pretend to so you can hurt others like you were hurt that life becomes painful.
i still believe in real love despite the three years i spent ‘loving’ one who was too confused to love me back.
if it hurts so much and ends so final, it isn’t love. love endures forever.
love is a very complicated feeling. You cant love without hate and you cant hate without love. Sometimes the hate will overwelm the love and there for the love you feel is demolished. The only thing left is the extreme hat. The more your heart gets broken the more the hate stands out. I am to the point I believe that I can no longer love or let anyone or anything get close to me. I am in constant pain and the suffering I feel just gets worse every day. I feel as though I am fighting a losing battle. I havent guven up yet and I dont ever plan to. Just be careful who you let get close to you and always be prepared…….Trust No one
love
i have not known
i could write many peoms about it
songs whatever..
but i have no one to give them 2
why i write them i dont know…
all i know is being alone causes much pain even thoe you dont relize it
it makes you sueicidal
i want love but cant find it in the dark..
i have always loved, and never been loved back….
i guess this is how i can discribe my “love” life, 6 days ago, a life of a man “me” ended, i was umm, left all to my self, to die alone… it turned out that the only thing i loved in this world, and planed so many things for, just simply found someone else who is “closer”, 2 years of hopes and dreams were dead in just 2 minutes … anyway, since this is all about “love” or whatever, personaly im having a very hard time believing in such thing, maybe thats only because this happened to me very soon… look i really dont know how im feeling, maybe its too soon to know what im going to end up feeling…
What satanz_kindred wrote was true. And as a reply to her post…You must bow to the inevitable. Black Star, x1vincent1x, and licenTious Martyr……Love WILL come to you. You need not worry about who will love you, just know that they Will come with the great love that you desire. They will be beautiful and make you feel just the same. As beautiful as they…….ohhh….I could go on and on….but then i want to hear from you already. I wish you all luck!
sweetness, i kinda get the feeling that you are in love, other wise you would’nt say that… i know i would say the same thing if i was in love… i do want to thank you for the kind words, but umm, sorry, it just dont work with me anymore, you see… if you want to love someone you have to sacrifice things for them, such as your time, your heart, your soul, your friends, i mean HELLO!! he/she is the one you LOVE!!!! but oh well, somehow everything i had had just VANISHED… i have nothing left to sacrifice, the pain and anger i carry deep down my soul is far more bigger than anything, no longer i can live, no longer i can love, i am to be always left alone to die again somewhere in that dark cold room, with only my self to blame, that one day… i had a heart, that one day, i was able to love…
thanks for your hope..
just thinking of what to say is turning into dark poetry..or songs…its weird
ummm??
but …im taking it you found someone…
if you did i hope you never loose it..”love”
any of you girl goths out there if you see a guy that you like ..ask him out…
cause he might like you
just to shy to say
so shy … alone…
with love to give