a little help please

o.k i need a lot of help on this subject because i really like this girl but i dont know what to do can you help me out i know she will help me out of my depression if she likes but i dont know if she dose and i feel safe talking to you guys and gouls because you can help me out.

give me guidence please HELP ME?

8 comments

  1. I’m not usually good on giving advice, but I am willing to try. First answer these questions ::
    1.) Does she have a boyfriend?
    2.) Are you two atleast friends?
    3.) Are you shy?
    Well, answer those questions and I will get back to you with my advice.
    -Emily.

  2. First off, don’t count on her to help you for anything. I know I sound like I’m just sucking the hope out of things, but I’ve seen enough people fall into unhealthy dependancy when mixing depression and love. It gets even worse when the relationship ends, so I advise emotional caution. Anyway, after that the primary thing to remember is that most relationships do NOT start between people that have been friends for a long time. If you don’t know her, get to know her for about a week, then ask her out – and keep it bloody casual. If you’ve known her for awhile, either quit stalling or find someone else.

  3. I’d like to help you out here, but what you’ve said is a bit confusing, probably ’cause there’s no begining and end of sentences. But I’m not sure what you’re saying either…

    You want help with your depression or the girl you’ve met…or do you feel she’ll stop you from feeling depressed? Or is it that you’re wondering if she will understand your depression? A little clarity would help us all…

  4. jezz. if you like her, You should try to let her know Some how, first Become A good Friend Of her. Help her out with things, that will keep your mind if Depression, And you’ll be Getting closer to her, Talk To her in the Hall ways. Find Out Where she likes to hang out After School and Stuff, And Talk to her Best friend. Drop Some hints. Like, Your Friend Is kinda Cute. and that kinda Stuff, And after a While of Being nive to her and being a Good Friend You’ll be Able to Empress her. then After You Know You Caught her eye, Try to Look Hot or Something, THen She’ll like you, Then ASk her Out, If she Says no, It was never ment to be, And Try to get your mind off Her, And go For some one else, And if it Works, Well good fer you.

  5. DON’T EXPECT HER TO HELP YOU, I AGREE.

    YOU CAN’T PUT THAT KIND OF PRESSURE ON SOMEONE WHEN YOU FIRST START GOING OUT, EXPECTING THEM TO FIX YOUR LIFE FOR YOU. CHANCES ARE SHE WON’T BE ABLE TO, AND THEN YOU’RE WORSE OFF THAN BEFORE.

    MAYBE THIS OBSESSION IS JUST A WAY OF NOT THINKING ABOUT YOUR DEPRESSION.
    IT’S SO EASY TO SAY “IF I HAD THAT GIRL EVERYTHING WOULD BE PERFECT.”
    MAYBE YOU NEED A REALITY CHECK.

    IT MIGHT BE BETTER FOR YOU TO WORK THROUGH YOUR OWN ISSUES, WITHOUT HER BECOMING TANGLED UP IN IT. JUST A THOUGHT.

    IF YOU THINK YOU’LL HAVE A GOOD TIME TOGETHER, THEN TELL HER SO. BECAUSE THAT’S ALL YOU CAN REALLY EXPECT FROM A RELATIONSHIP. IF SHE THINKS YOU MIGHT HAVE FUN TOO, THEN IT’S EASY FROM THERE.
    IF YOU CAN ONLY HAVE HER AS A FRIEND, THEN SO BE IT. SHE MAY HELP YOU THROUGH THIS JUST BY BEING A FRIEND.

    IF THIS DOESN’T WORK OUT … DON’T LET IT FLOOR YOU. MOST PROBABLY, YOU DON’T NEED HER AT ALL. YOU JUST THINK YOU DO BECAUSE OF THIS IMAGE YOU HAVE OF HER.

    REMEMBER, IN THE LONG RUN, YOU DON’T REALLY NEED ANYBODY BUT YOURSELF. THAT SHOULDN’T STOP YOU FROM TAKING OTHER PEOPLE ALONG FOR THE RIDE.

    GOOD FORTUNE, ::B::

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