Here’s it goes. I fell in lose with my best freind on dec 22. I loved befor that just not as deeply in Love As I’m in now.
See it all started back in 1994. When I use To live next door to her and are windows were across from each other.
I use To Throw pennies at her window to get her atention to talk to her late at night. Well one night I threw a penny at her window and it was open, so the penny hit her in The Forhead. Well This x-mas she gave The penny back to me on a necklace and I found out from her brother that she does talk about me when I’m not around.
See me and her have been Freinds for so long I don’t want to rune The Freindship we have. Also I’m in the marine Corps and I’m 3300 miles away from her I don’t know if I should tell her yet or if i should tell her at all. Please some body give me some advice on what should I do. I love her some much And I don’t know what I’m going to so in A few years I get out of the marines and I don’t have A chance with her becasue she already Found somebody, I Don;t want this to happen. I want to build a world with her. Please Somebody help….. Sake, The Angel of Shadows
Hi, im not too good on luv issues but ill tell u sumthing, i had a friend in college, no one would speak to her or help her with her work, so i did, we got talking and hit it off straight away, we became such good friends, we left it at that because i didnt want to ruin our friendship either.
So one day i went to visit her, but found out that she had moved 🙁 she had gone to birmingham to visit a friend of hers, ended up living there, found a boyfriend etc…
We’re still real good friends now, we got back in touch but she doesnt know that i really love her, im happy with being friends, but i always wonder, like every day if we could have been more.
So the moral of this story is that maybe u should tell her how u feel before its too late? There is a chance it could do something to your friendship, but it seems obvious this girl likes u, talks about u when ure not around, etc. Im writing this on the basis she asnt found anyone else yet? it does seem by the way u wrote it that she did? if it hasnt happened yet, maybe u should go for it, but listen to your heart, and not me 🙂
Let me know how it turns out
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There’s only one question you need to ask yourself here.
“Can you live with yourself for the next fifty odd years knowing you let her go when she could be your *one*?”
Telling her that you love her is not going to ruin anything. Not your friendship, especially if it’s so strong. If she doesn’t return your feelings then she doesn’t, and life goes on for the two of you. If she does then maybe, just maybe you’ve found your soulmate. I have a feeling that she does.
If now isn’t your time then knowing you’re there and knowing you love her and knowing she can always turn to you can only do her good. It might even bring you closer.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out.
Be happy, blacklight.
Well, The Best Course Depends On Why You “Love” her. If you realy do, then by all means follow the advice everyones giving you. Tell her!. But if you just think she looks good and you just want a good *****, then, well, i think you should be shot. But Then Again, if you look at it from that way, Whatever Works, Right?
Put it this way – If you two were meant to be together then it would happen whether you told her now or not. If you waited until you got back and told her then it would probably make things easier for a few reasons. 1. long distance relationships never work. 2. Even if she has a boyfriend if you two weere meant to be together she’d have a gut feeling and dump the dude for you. 3. If you tell her now while your feelings are so strong it may seem like the best thing to do at the time, but what if you don’t feel the same way in 2 years when you’re moving back, won’t it be better to see how you feel once you’ve moved back there rather than opening something up that may not be worth it.
But. Alas it is your decision. I’ve just garbelled all this stuff out about what you should do, but if it was me, I’d tell her. I know it contradicts everything I’ve just said but if it was me I would tell her. I would write her a letter and hope for the best.
Good luck
Vixodus
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If I was you, I’d tell her as soon as possible. It seems she’s quite taken with you anyway. Having saved that penny for so long could mean that it had some sort of sentimental value to her. If she doesn’t feel the same about you, it will hurt, but at least you will know and you will soon heal, being a stronger person in the end. If she doesn’t feel the same and lets it destroy the friendship you have, then she wasn’t a true friend to begin with. You can at least have her brother throw it up to her in a random conversation, like “…You know, *(your name here)* is a really good guy. You two should be a couple.” Well, something a lil less corny, but you get the idea.
If you don’t tell her, there’s a chance that she might meet someone else, marry them, and have their child. Even if they don’t get married and have a kid, it could still complicate things, IMO.
Well, I hope this has been somewhat helpful. If you guys hit it off, let us know.
Fifty years me arse!
I would have to agree with what others have said before me and say thats it worth a chance taking. Although, I also like to look at both sides of a coin and will play the tails. This is just questions to keep in mind so don’t break yourself over them.
1. What do you see yourself doing with and without her in your life?
2. Can there be anyone else for you out there that can leave you with such a feeling in your heart?
3. Has and will she find someone else without you?
4. Have you two been able to trust each other to a point that if you did have to leave she would understand or come with?
5. Is this a risk that you feel you can take for the both of you?
and last…
6. Think of her in your mind and whats the first thing you saw when you did so?
I wish you luck and whatever you chose and hope that things will work for you and if things work the way you want them to then I wish a happy life for the both of you.
if i were you i would tell her. you don’t want to sit there and not say anything because you’re afraid of what will happen only to find out years later that you two could have been together. when you fall in love as you have to should always go for it. you never know what the future could hold once you get out of the marines.
Hi! I know exactly how you feel. I have known this guy my whole life and I never realized how much I loved him until he got his first girlfriend. I also don’t know what to do, but I think that you should tell her how you feel. It might be a relief to her since she obviously thinks the same about you.
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