I wanna tell you all somthing ironic,and very cruel.Yesterday me and my mother got into a fight,she went out to work as usual,and left without telling me,
i get a 1 in a life time offer,to go to a concert with 1 of my best friend’s,the only problem is,i need money,i call my mum on her cell and ask her if she can turn round and drop of some…..she is just down the road,and she say’s she is 2busy…and gues what she was doing….she was having sex in the truck with her god damn boy friend.She said to me that i was a lazy bitch and needed to do somthing around the house before she would even concider giving me money…uh exuse me! i do ALL the god damn work while she has sex!.So any way,she hangs up on me and turn’s her cell off.I call my friend back and say i cant go,she ask’s me why,so i tell her,the good new’s is,she can pay for me,the bed new’s is…well…there is non.I get packed and shit (im sleeping over as well) and i go to her place,completly forgetting my mother,and to leave her a note telling her where i went.So,it’s been an awsome night right,next day i wake up and so forth,go to the mall and buy clothes (on my friedns expences,but meh mum has to pay her back *grin*) we come back…where sitting there watching T.V when my mother call’s up.I pick it up and she start’s yelling and screaming at me saying im an inconciderat cow,and i need to learn to have some recsponability….this time…i hang up on her,she come’s over to my friends house and pulls me outta the house by my hair…so..here i am…now,in my room,bruised and bleeding from my lip,yup,life has it ups and down’s,and i seriosly think my mother need’s to get a life,and stop picking on me,what do you guys’s think??
Ok, she shouldn’t be yelling, screaming, and beating you up. You were a little disrespectful, although she doesn’t sound like she’s been earning any respect; but even if she had, it doesn’t warrant bruising you up.
I’m all in favor of making kids do chores to earn discretionary spending money. If she’s not recognizing that you’re doing work, try to make a deal for certain chores. For example, if you clean the house once a week, you get so many dollars, and if you do the dishes each night, you get so many more dollars. And pick chores where she can verify that they’ve been done if she doesn’t trust you. Insist on getting paid once a week. In other words, a set allowance for set chores. It sounds juvenile, because it’s what you use on immature kids, but it might work on immature parents too. It eliminates any confusion about whether or not you’ve done any work around the house and how much money you get. And also, you can save up what you don’t use for future things and don’t have to ask her every time you need money. Of course, I don’t know how logical your mother’s going to be.
And she should be paying for your clothes, although she does get a say in what clothes you buy if she’s paying for them.
Sounds like your mother’s problem is that she has a life, a work life and a sex life, and has no life left over to be nice to you.
*has read Florence’s response* I could try to come up with something better than that, but it would take me a while…so how about I agree with Florence since his reasoning sounds excellent to me.
A word to the wise though, when a parent excerts a nature, the child tends to follow it. It is called codepedency, and just because you mother does something, doesn’t mean you should…I’ve had my fair share of shit for doing the same to my father or mother.
-Elizabeth
Lifes a bitch, and sometimes parents are bitcehs too, she shouldn’t had beaten you up, but maybe what you did was a bit iresponsible, but what the fuck we are all teens, we make shit sometimes, try to get some respect from her somehow, me and my mother also end up fighting,
but we always, end up getting friend again. But she has to give you some attention
i say fuck the mother. i walked out of my house plenty of times, no note, no nothing. i buy my own damn clothes, i do what i want. maybe the money issue is the problem. find a job. if you have one, great, start saving. in the real world, you can only spend what you have. my mom was plenty pissed when i walked out those times, but what could she do. she wouldn’t dare hit me, she’s afraid of me. she’s afraid i’d hit her back and i wouldn’t stop. if you get a job and avoid her things should work out. i’m not saying this is the solution to your problem cause it could be dificult to get your mom to the point where she’s afraid of you, maybe you ought to ignore this and do what florence suggests.
been there and done that, and best of luck to you.
My parents wont do shit to me because they know I have homocidal tendancies and I will blow thier fucking heads off.
that is shit. that pisses me off . i would nock the fuck out of her.i wold leave after i beat the shit out of her. well not to be a hateful bitch but, kick her ass.
Or, you could even do by what the law says. And call the cops, after she’s beaten you and have them deal with her. Of course, they’d have to actually care.
Oh, and Florence… … her mother doesn’t actually sound like a _reasonable_ person, for trying to do all that, thinking she’ll listen.
Sometimes, the only way for a person to listen. Is to make them.
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I went easy on you Zombie, although, I don’t know what the hell these people were talking about saying to you, “maybe it was a bit irresponsible” that’s rubbish.
To me, it’s just the whole once in a life time concert thing. As I don’t go to concerts and don’t view them as so wonderful and important.
Oh, and I think that a lot of people sometimes get angry when they’re having sex and then they get phone calls during them.
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For “Schiz”. If you take life, then you don’t deserve life.
Meh….My mom’s not a whore….But she’s DEFINATELY a bitch. A big Bitchy Bitching Bitch. A few nights ago she left home and locked me out. I slept in 30 degree weather. Yay for me. It wasn’t the first time either. Try getting kicked out cause you’re DEPRESSED and spending the night with bums downtown.
::wipes tear from eye and sniffles::…
…memories.
JENNY!!!!1 WHAT THE FALSGDJDSA ARE YOU DOING/?!?!!!@?!1 FREAKING E-MAOIL ASMETG;AGSFD;UKDSG!1
I used to be treated the same, until they noticed how badly they were fucking up my head.
Maybe you should kill her in her sleep…
Take a bottle of ent poison and pour it down her throat. Ant poison has a honey scent and flavour that is used to attract the ants. Pour it in her mouth when she sleep’s and sheel dream she’s sucking the honey off a truckie’s cock!
She wont stop drinking it…